I'm reluctant to write this because I've done stupid things around women myself. But as clueless as I was, I never went this far. I was talking to a girl with serious communication issues. She took the hot/cold dynamic to an absurd extreme—insulting me one moment, calling me cute the next. It was like a scratched CD that keeps jumping. Hot and cold only works with subtlety and charm. Without elegance, it feels forced. Her compliments seemed fake, like setup for the next mean comment.

I got frustrated with her contradictory behavior but gave her a chance to turn it around. I told her straight: "Okay, I'm going to teach you the right way to act around a man." And then she did it. She licked both palms and rubbed them down my face like she was washing me. It was degrading and awkward. I'm sure in her mind she thought she was being playful and challenging—the kind of "fun girl" that keeps a man interested. Instead, she came across as immature and disrespectful.

It's easy to mock beta males who don't know how to attract women, but what about girls who've never developed basic social skills to interest a man beyond their looks? If you're approaching thirty and still can't engage in a fun, genuine way that doesn't feel mean or bizarre, you're headed toward a lonely future. I actually felt bad for her because she couldn't express herself in any way that felt authentic or interesting. Silence would have been better than whatever that was.

Women who rely solely on physical appearance or confusing mixed signals eventually hit a wall. Without genuine wit, or social awareness, attraction fades fast. A man wants to feel respected and entertained, not tested or degraded. When a girl can't communicate in a way that feels natural and kind, she loses credibility and interest. The irony is that simple presence—genuine conversation, authentic laughter, real connection—matters far more than shock value or manufactured drama ever could.